根据以下材料回答题 You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatestpuzzles in our life． "A really good relationship should be about being fair and being equal," says psychologistSidney Crown．"but love is seldom equal．" All relationships go through power struggles but, hesays, if a love imbalance continues for years, the rot will set in．In love, at least, the silent, with-holding type is not always the most powerful．"The strongest one in a relationship is often the per-son who feels confident enough to talk about their feelings．" says educational psychologist IngridCollins．"In fact, the person who says &39; I love you&39; first may also be the one who says &39; I&39; mbored with you&39; first．" Hall believes that much depends on how "I love you" is said and the mo-tivation of the person saying it．"Is it said when they&39;re drunk? By saying &39;I love you&39;, they re-ally saying &39; Do you love me?&39; If so, wouldn&39; t it just be more honest to say that?" Collins agreesthat intention is everything．"It&39; s not what is said, but how it&39; s said．What it comes down to isthe sincerity of the speaker．" What is the main idea of this passage? 查看材料