A married couple were in a car while the wife turned to       76．__________ her husband and asked, “Would you like to stop for coffee?” “No,         77．__________ thanks．” he answered truthfully．But they didn’t stop．However,    78．__________ the wife, who has indeed wanted to stop, became angry, because          79．_________ she felt her preference had not considered．The husband, seeing that  80．_________ his wife was angry, became frustrated．Why didn’t she just say that        81．_________ she wanted? Unfortunately, he failed in to see that his wife was      82．_________ asking the question, in order not to get an immediately decision,       83．_________ but rather to begin discussion．And the women didn’t realize that    84．_________ when her husband said no, he was just express his preference, not     85．_________ giving an order．