How did your friendships begin? Most start with a short conversation on a random day. Asking about a homework assignment in class or complaining about your painful legs after playing in a soccer game, you found your best pal by accident. “Small talk is where all your relationships begin,” Forbes magazine summed up. The following is a five-step guide to making small talk from Bernardo J. Carducci, the director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast, US. Let’s have a look. Getting started Begin by talking about the setting, such as the weather outside or the room you are in (“It’s cold in here, isn’t it?”). The purpose of talking about the setting is to show the other person that you are willing to make a conversation. ②The personal introduction You should mention something about yourself, such as your name. A good personal introduction helps move the conversation forward. ③Looking for topics At this point, you and your conversation partner need to find common ground. This is a good time to ask questions or to refer back to things you’ve said or heard earlier. Don’t worry if it gets quiet. The other person is probably just thinking of something to say. ④Expanding the topic The goal is to keep the conversation going. At every stage, you should be careful not to talk too much. But don’t let the other person dominate the conversation either. If that starts to happen, mention something about yourself when he or she takes a breath. ⑤A polite ending When ending a conversation, let the person know you’ll be leaving soon, express gratitude for the conversation and set the stage for a future conversation. For example, you could say, “I really must be going soon, but I had a great time chatting with you. I really liked hearing your opinion about that new movie. Here’s my phone number. Call or text me if you know of any other movies you think I might enjoy.” 小题1:According to the article, starting by talking about the setting is meant to ________. A．find common ground B．impress the other person C．make a conversation D．make the room warmer 小题2:What does the underlined word “ dominate ” mean in Tip④? A．interrupt B．control C．adapt D．simplify 小题3:When ending a conversation, you’d better ________. A．talk about how much you want to keep talking B．show that you’ve not enjoyed the talk C．mention a specific movie that you love D．give your opinion about the other person’s earlier comments 小题4:The main purpose of the article is to ________. A．encourage students to make more friends B．give students tips on making small talk C．introduce popular topics for students D．teach students how to create friendships