We parents have sky­high hopes for our children. ___小题1:____. What can we do to help our kids grow up to lead happy lives? According to the experts, we can do many things to help our kids. ___小题2:____ In order to succeed，children need to feel they're good at something. So expose your children to as many interests as possible, and then let them choose those they like best.    Applauded their achievements. A study found that students whose parents paid attention to their abilities were far more likely to do well in school and in life—than students whose parents didn't show such support. ____小题3:___ ____小题4:____. Making his/her own decisions increases a child's sense of control and builds his/her self­esteem (自尊心). And allowing kids to make wrong decisions—so long as doing so won't harm them—helps kids learn from their mistakes. Encouraging them to solve their own problems. As they grow, children need practice in communicating，standing up for themselves and compromising(妥协). One of the best places to learn these skills is at home. ____小题5:____. A．Help them to find their talents. B．Let them make decisions and mistakes. C．Don’t criticize the kids in front of the public. D．We expect them to be confident and content. E. The children will lead a happier life if given more freedom. F. So celebrate your kids’ achievements, no matter how small they are. G. So the next time your child runs to you complaining that her brother is blaming her，step back and let them work it out.