Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right and others are wrong. Many people believe that it’s their job to 36 others how their positions, statements and points of view are 37 and that in doing so, the person they are correcting is going to somehow 38 it, or at least learn something. Wrong！ Think about it. Have you ever been 39 by someone and said to him, “Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right.” Or has anyone you know ever 40 you when you corrected him, or made yourself “right” at his 41 ? Of course not. The truth is, all of us 42 to be corrected. We all want our position to be 43 and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest 44 of the human heart. And those who learn to 45 are the most loved and respected. Those who are in the 46 of correcting others are often hated and 47 . A wonderful way of becoming more peaceful and loving is to practice 48 others the joy of being right--- give them the glory. 49 correcting. When someone says, “I really feel it’s important to…” rather than 50 and saying, “No, it’s more important to…” , simply let it go and allow his statement to 51 . The people in your life will become less defensive and more 52 . They will appreciate you more than you could ever have 53 possible. You’ll discover the joy of joining in and seeing other people’s 54 , which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos（自我意识）. Starting today, and let others be “ 55  ” most of the time. 小题1: A．classify B．show C．advise D．persuade 小题2: A．unbelievable B．imperfect C．incorrect D．unimportant 小题3: A．promote B．appreciate C．consider D．understand 小题4: A．corrected B．fooled C．helped D．taught 小题5: A．awarded B．accepted C．cared D．thanked 小题6: A．effort B．price C．expense D．power 小题7: A．afford B．hate C．like D．prefer 小题8: A．respected B．received C．admired D．realized 小题9: A．advantages B．appetites C．shortcomings D．desires 小题10: A．adjust B．benefit C．listen D．praise 小题11: A．form B．habit C．purpose D．position 小题12: A．avoided B．left C．punished D．scolded 小题13: A．lending B．owing C．promising D．allowing 小题14: A．Consider B．Practice C．Stop D．Continue 小题15: A．working out B．jumping in C．turning up D．putting off 小题16: A．stand B．last C．harm D．work 小题17: A．careful B．helpful C．popular D．loving 小题18: A．ordered B．led C．dreamed D．demanded 小题19: A．worries B．happiness C．sufferings D．success 小题20: A．right B．satisfied C．proud D．excited