In order to improve relationship with others, you need to be aware of several sensible ways to complain. 1 , you need to be specific. Don’t say, “Boy, did you 2 like a fool at the party?” Instead, say, “You embarrassed me by getting 3 and loud and telling offensive jokes to my parents.” Secondly, stick to the present. Don’t mention old offences from last month or last year. By doing this, you 4 attention from the problem at hand. Moreover, 5 you complain, don’t add insults. If you start calling the other person names, that will 6 create anger and hurt any chance of getting the person to really 7 you. A last point to remember is to complain privately. Never criticize the other person in front of friends, parents, children, or anyone else, for that 8 . Criticizing in front of a third party has the same effect as 9 . This shames the person being criticized and makes it very likely that the person will want to attack you orally rather than listen to you. Sensible ways to Complain: Be specific Stick to the present 10 Complain privately 小题1:1. A.To start with B.Frankly speaking C.Anyway D.Needless to say 小题2: A.conduct B.play C.do D.act 小题3: A.upset B.bored C.delighted D.drunk 小题4: A.take away B.set off C.draw up D.catch up 小题5: A.before B.after C.when D.unless 小题6: A.even B.never C.only D.still 小题7: A.listen to B.work for C.look after D.wait on 小题8: A.time B.matter C.person D.party 小题9: A.jokes B.insults C.criticism D.embarrassment 小题10: A.Don’t add insults B.Don’t mention old offenses C.Don’t lose temper D.Don’t tell embarrassing jokes