What do I want? It' s really a very 1 question; yet many of us are not sure . 2 it doesn’t have to be all that difficult to answer . It’s a matter of 3 . Have you ever looked through a telescope at something? You find a 4 point to concentrate on, and then 5 the settings . At first, it's too 6 , then it's too far away, finally it' s just right . The 7 is that it takes many adjustments to 8 the subject into focus . If 9 want to look at something else, the 10 starts again . Goal-setting is the same way . Don' t 11 if at first you don' t know exactly what you want to 12 . Just don' t make the mistake of never committing 13 anything . Sometimes the answer is very simple: Just 14 something! Dr . Mark Goldstone, author of Get Out of Your Own Way, 15 you "look back in order to look 16 . " Examine your calendar at day' s end during a typical week and 17 each appointment or listing on a scale of - 3 to + 3, 18 -3 means "If I never do this again, it will be 'too soon to do it . " and + 3 means "I could do this all day long, and I can' t 19 to do it all over again . " 20 you identify the frequent themes, you' 11 be able to better focus your dreams .