Many of us spend a great deal of time and energy trying to prove that we are right-and others are wrong. Many people believe that it’s their job to  36  others how their positions, statements, and points of view are 37 , and that in doing so, the person they are correcting is going to somehow   38   it, or at least learn something. Wrong! Think about it. Have you ever been   39   by someone and said to him, “Thank you so much for showing me that I’m wrong and you’re right.”? Or, has anyone you know ever 40 you when you corrected them, or made yourself “right” at their   41  ? Of course not. The truth is, all of us 42 to be corrected. We all want our positions to be   43   and understood by others. Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest 44 of the human heart. And those who learn to   45   are the most loved and respected. Those who are in the 46 of correcting others are often resented and   47  . A wonderful way for becoming more peaceful and loving is to practise   48   others the joy of being right-      give them the glory. 49 correcting. When someone says, “I really feel it’s important to/:”, rather than jumping   50   and saying, “No, it’s more important to…:”, simply let it go and allow their statement to 51 . The people in your life will become less defensive and more   52  . They will appreciate you more than you could ever have 53. You’ll discover the joy of joining in and witnessing other people’s 54 , which is far more rewarding than a battle of egos (自我). Starting today, let others be “  55  ”, most of the time? 36.A.show      B.ask      C.prove   D.teach 37.A.unimportant   B.unbelievable       C.incorrect     D.imperfect 38.A.consider B.appreciate    C.understand   D.refuse 39.A.fooled    B.helped  C.taught  D.corrected 40.A.thanked  B.rewarded     C.cared   D.accepted 41.A.side B.price    C.expense       D.cost 42.A.like B.hate     C.prefer  D.afford 43.A.admired  B.received      C.realized       D.respected 44.A.shortcomings B.advantages   C.desires D.wishes 45.A.talk B.praise   C.help     D.listen 46.A.habit      B.form    C.position       D.purpose 47.A.punished B.avoided       C.left      D.scolded 48.A.letting    B.lending       C.allowing      D.owing 49.A.Stop       B.Continue     C.Practise       D.Try 50.A.out  B.up       C.in D.off 51.A.last B.go       C.work    D.stand 52.A.helpful   B.loving  C.careful D.popular 53.A.dreamed B.wanted C.asked   D.demanded 54.A.sufferings      B.worries       C.successs       D.happiness 55.A.happy     B.right    C.sorry    D.proud