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Now the commencement speakers will typically also wish you good luck and _____1_______ to you. I will not do that, and I’ll tell you why. From time to time in the years to come, I hope you will be treated unfairly, so that you will come to know the ________2________ . I hope that you will suffer betrayal because that will teach you the importance of ______3__________ . Sorry to say, but I hope you will be lonely from time to time so that you don’t _______4_________ . I wish you bad luck, again, from time to time so that you will ________5________ the role of chance in life and understand that your success ________6________ and that the failure of others is not completely deserved either. And when you lose, as you will from time to time, I hope every now and then, your opponent 对手 will ________7________ your failure. It is a way for you to understand the importance of sportsmanship. I hope you’ll be _______8_______ so you know the importance of listening to others, and I hope you will have just __________ ______9_________ . Whether I wish these things or not, they’re going to happen. And whether you benefit from them or not will depend upon your ability to see the message in your misfortunes.