S tudents ’ pressure sometimes comes from their parents. M ost parents are well (36) ________ , but some of them aren ’ t very helpful with the problems their sons and daughters have in (37) ________ to college, and a few of them seem to go out of their way to add to their children ’ s difficulties. F or one thing, parents are often not (38) ________ of the kinds of problems their children face. T hey don ’ t realize that the (39) ________ is keener, that the required (40) ________ of work are higher, and that their children may not be prepared for the change. (41) ________ to seeing A ’ s and B ’ s on high school report cards, they may be upset when their children ’ s first (42) ________ college grades are below that level. A t their kindest, they may gently (43) ________ why John or Mary isn ’ t doing better, whether he or she is trying as hard as he or she should, and so on. (44) ________________________________ . S ometimes parents regard their children as extensions of themselves and (45) ________________________________ . I n their involvement and identification with their children, they forget that everyone is different and that each person must develop in his or her own way. T hey forget that their children, (46) ________________________________ .